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how mindset and expectations are related

Lets talk about mindset and expectation. 
Have you ever heard the word mindset?
What do you mean by mindset?
What is your mind set?



Mindset is a mental attitude or inclination. Mindset can also be seen as incident of person's world view or philosophy of life. For me mindset is the way you see the world through your experiences all lessons given by life in different situations. Everyone will have different definitions of mindset according to their mindsets.

Do you believe every individual have different mindset?

 I do believe every individual have different mindset, because every other person things in a different way, they have different experiences, have different opinions, their behaviors are different, they have different values and beliefs,  etc. In short every individual have different personality, then how can their mindset be same?

Have you ever noticed whenever you do something for someone you start expecting from that person to do the same to you whatever you do you want it back in return.
For example- you never break anyone's trust, always good and ready to help people. Then slowly you will start expecting the same from people around you and in case anyone close to you break your trust then you start feeling bad and sorry for yourself. You will be like - "I never broke anyone's trust then why do people broke my trust? why? why me?"
For the situation there is a famous quote- If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you are fooling yourself. That's like expecting the Lion not to eat you because you don't eat him."

Now here's the question arises- 
"why I am talking about expectation in the topic of mindset?"

 Because your expectations come from your mindset, if you expect something from someone then this expectation is going on inside your mind and that someone has no idea about what you are expecting from them because of which they won't be able to fulfill your expectation and at last this will hurt you as that someone has no idea about your expectation that person will be carefree and clueless, but your mindset will continuously affect you and take you to the negative way, your behavior will change towards that person and you will end up affecting that person and your relationship with them.

This is the best example of different mindset of different individuals.
The nature of Mind set is created by experiences, habits of mind, it shapes our life and shape our world, can be developed, can be transmitted, they are self deceptive. Our belief and value affect our attitude and behavior and show our mindset.

Your mindset is your mindset none of our mindset (LOL a sarcastic meme) so do whatever you want to do, change it, fix it, enjoy it, live your life to the fullest and finest.

Thank you 😊
Amisha pareek.

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